Saturday, March 5, 2011
Rest in Peace Good and Faithful Servant
Today we are celebrating Dad's long and loving life with a service at the Methodist Church for anyone in the community who wishes to participate. Yesterday the family experienced a tender moment when the Military Honor Guard recognized Dad's faithful service to this country in WWII by playing Taps, displaying the flag, and then folding it and presenting it to my brother. The slow-motion salute was a powerful symbol of respect, one that had a more profound impact on me than I expected. Actually, I did not know what to expect.
My brother, sister and I placed Dad's ashes next to Mom's in their niche. The finality of this simple act is also profound, as if to say, "This chapter of your life is over." The notion of closure may be elusive to some, but as I saw their matching oak boxes side by side, I felt they were once again complete. And for that, I am grateful.
Sunday, February 13, 2011
Catharsis for $161.25
Everyday life can offer a similar, if not more modest, experience when long-deferred projects come to fruition, when actual process is made. This weekend was made up a collection of tasks which when taken individually are pretty mundane. But taken as a whole, I think I might have just had a mini-catharsis without the tragic plot. The amazingly good weather motivated me to change the oil in the truck, a long overdue chore which I used to do with a regularity that would make my Dad proud. He was an automotive engineer and taught me the importance of routine and preventive maintenance for engines. As I removed the drain plug and oil filter, the wrench slipped from my hand and fell into the used oil. When something like this happened while Dad tutored me, I recall him saying, "That's exactly what I didn't want to happen." The memory made me smile.
After replacing the drain plug, installing a new filter and refilling the crankcase with oil, I topped off the brake fluid reservoir and took Roman to the p-a-r-k. The truck ran quietly and confidently, despite its 265,000 miles and 21 year-old frame. So the logical next step was to load the truck with as many crates of "stuff" destined for the swap meet as would fit.
Arriving at the Solano Drive-in about 9am, we were well-behind the regulars and hard-core swap meet crowd who setup at 6am to hawk their wares and prowl for treasure. Before we had unloaded our crates and setup our humble display, shoppers were helping themselves by looking in the truck bed, opening boxes and asking "How much?" I thought their behavior oddly bold, but then I realized this is a different community with its own norms for acceptable or customary behavior.
Interacting with and observing the humanity at the swap meet was fascinating. Generally, people were very nice, if not eccentric. One elderly gentleman made several visits to our table, declaring each time, "I'm not here to mess around!" On his final visit, he bought an imitation Persian runner, a hose spigot and a German license plate for $4. It's true what they say about "one man's junk." Interest in our table came and went in small waves of families strolling, hard-core shoppers looking for a deal and kind people who had time for conversation.
We sold over half of the stuff by volume but not by value. Most transactions were for less than $5, so it took quite awhile to amass our earnings of $161.25. After failing to sell a Lebadang lithograph I purchased in 1981 for $150, we looked it up on the Internet and found out it is worth $1,300. Another transaction, and another mini-catharsis to come.
Monday, May 17, 2010
Decompressing in the Alps
Friday, May 14, 2010
Monaco Grand Prix
The Serendipity of travel struck again when we found ourselves in this Camelot like principality known as Monaco. The Grimaldi family negotiated well several centuries ago to retain their little slice of the French/Italian Riviera without becoming part of any other country. France provides military protection in case any marauding bandits show up with evil intent for the throne. The son of Prince Rainier III and Princess Grace (the actress Grace Kelly) is the current monarch (Albert II), and his focus is to make Monaco a sustainable and unique place on earth for the Monogasques (citizens) and visitors alike. First impressions suggest he is succeeding.
Today there was a break in the driving of the Grand Prix, allowing the wealthy to drive their high-end cars on the course. We sat at a Cafe beside the Royal Casino and let the parade come to us as Porches, Lambourghinis, Ferraris, Rolls Royces, Bentleys, Mercedes and Audis drove by. The pedestrians and photographers limited the speed at our S-turn from 0 to maybe 8 mph. It was time to see and be seen.
The only thing more expensive than the cars was the female footwear. I have never seen such exotic and improbable shoes. Paparazzi were busy photographing anyone who could even remotely have been "someone".
Monday, May 10, 2010
Papal Time in Avignon
The many rooms open to the public include the various vaults and treasuries where valuables were stored, the "Jesus" room, the Pope's apartments, vast dining halls, the kitchen and an unremarkable chapel. Wherever a window is located one can see the thickness of the walls. In some cases, I estimated this to be over 10 feet of solid limestone. No wonder this structure has survived 6 centuries and counting. The audio guide provided interesting observations about the lavish feasts which occurred here. The Pope and his trusted "carver" had the only knives in the room for fear of assassination. Even the King of France, when he deigned to visit, sat at a table below the Pope. Oddly, superstition reigned in terms of detecting treasonous plans: a probe made of whale bone and precious ivory was believed to have the ability to detect poisons in the food.
The bridge at Avignon (le pont d'Avignon) is famous for many reasons, not the least of which is the children's rhyme "Sur le pont d'Avignon, on y danse, on y danse, sur le pont d'Avignon, on y danse tous en ronde" which translates to "On the bridge at Avignon, we all dance there, we all dance there, on the bridge at Avignon, we all dance there all in a circle." Any French citizen today of a certain generation can sing this song, just as Americans can sing "Ring around the rosie".
The bridge was created as a result of a conversation God had with a certain Monsieur Benezek. He claimed that God told him to build a bridge across the Rhone river, everyone laughed, and the church leaders said that if it was true then he should be able to lift a massive boulder as a proof of God's sponsorship. The story of Benezek's sainthood declares that he, indeed, lifted the boulder and threw it into the river as the first foundation of the original bridge (which fell down in the 17th century). Again, superstition reigned in this society regarding floods and the dangers of crossing a bridge. Men of letters of the day wrote that "...one cannot cross the bridge at Avignon without meeting 2 monks, 2 mules and 2 whores."
We enjoyed a Galette for lunch which is a savory crepe with contents of your choosing. I had spinach and goat cheese while Dennis enjoyed ham, tomatoes, mushrooms and goat cheese. The Galette is very filling and healthy at the same time. Yet another recipe to work on at home.
L'economie en France
Saturday, May 8, 2010
3 Centuries
Seating in the 5 levels is quite tight, perhaps reminding us that 17th and 18th century Parisians were shorter and more compact than 21st century ballet patrons. Our box had 6 individual, movable chairs; however, only the front 2 had an unobstructed view of the stage. Being in seats 3 and 4 (effectively a 2nd row) we enjoyed it when the dancers happened to leap into view, whether on point or not. Regrettably, the two patrons behind us saw nothing but could hear the beautiful music by Chopin.
The tribute to Jerome Robbins included a hilarious reenactment of The Mistake Waltz during which 1 of the 6 ballerinas always lands in the wrong location, faces the wrong way, or in some other obvious way ruins the choreography. The audience roared with laughter, applauding wildly when the music stopped while she realized her mistake and walked defiantly to the correct position. At the end, the male dancers literally folded the women like chairs and props, carrying them off stage helter skelter. The female dancers demonstrated amazing physical conditioning, holding their bodies stiff as manikins as they disappeared from view.
Leaving the Opera House, the crowd walks down the same marble steps used by more than 3 centuries of patrons, continuing the wear patterns on each step. To think of who has walked there before leaves me truly aware, as aware as I can be, of how long a century is.